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For those of you with significant others, does it bother you if your partner has a little online flirtation in their blog/chatrooms etc.?
Way back in 1997, when I got out of my first serious relationahip, with a not-so-nice boy, I took to IRCing....all the time. It was way too much fun to pass the time with strangers, in a chatroom, to the wee hours of the night. A safe little community, where you could remain anonymous to a degree. I IRCed regularly for about two years...and then the fun wore off and I went to uni and that was that.
I can't recall ever striking up a relationship with a guy online. There were guys (and girls) that I looked forward to talking to and there was the allure of "who is he?" but that was it.
My current boy is very good-looking (to me of course, every one has their own taste). But I've watched him blog and chat on other sites and the girls come out of the woodwork. And we're not talking "hello, how are you?". We're talking automatic "xoxo, you're really cute". (no, he's not on pick-up sites:P). I try to remain cool and calm, but sometimes it really gets me and the evil jealousy monster comes out to play. I'm being bare-bones honest here.
So I don't know what to do, I certainly would never ask him to stop because that would be like asking me not to post here...but I need to know if this is common, not alone? Am I crazy?....hahaha ok I know I"m not...but has anyone else ever had this problem? How was it resolved?
11:15 AM - May 31, 2008 - {7} -
So my best bud M was down again this weekend, namely for the Mother's Day celebration we did yesterday. On Saturday night, we decided to head out for a few drinks and meet up with some others. It was myself, M, my brother, my boyfriend C, his friend and girl and we were to meet a few peeps at the pub.
First, C's friend flakes off, totally leaving his gf stranded and for no apparent good reason.
Then, the people we meet up with, seem to be full of unnecessary drama, as they continue to drink too much, argue and have 'secret talks' outside. Weird weird weird.
It didnt' help that I was sober.
But looking around I couldnt' help but think how functional my very dysfunctional loved ones are. C, M, and my brother had a lot to drink, considering it was our first Mother's Day (the next day) without our mum, we were completely relaxed and in great spirits. M, who lost her mum a couple years ago was also fine. When M, lost her mum, my mum became her mother (quite literally). So really M, has lost two mothers in 3 years. Not good.
But we were all cool and lovely and smiley and were quite baffled about all the drama surrounding us. Just a bizarre evening.
Mother's Day itself was ok. I had a good cry with C when I got home. My brother isn't doing as well I think. I think the only time he allows himself to work through this is when he comes home to visit. Anyway, one holiday down, now just to get through my birthday next week. I'm sure it'll be fine...maybe I shouldn't be trying to quit smoking though....hahaha any excuse to have another...
4:53 PM - May 12, 2008 - {0} -
this is a lot of work...hahaha i know nothing about design :confused:
11:10 AM - May 4, 2008 - {1} -
Wow! So things have changed. Lots has changed in my life, and I can't wait to see what's been happening with everyone else. We'll see who's still around. And let's see if I can this page actually designed....may need a lot of help.
2:16 PM - January 21, 2008 - {2} -
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